There are some individuals, someone that you may know, a friend or a relative, who have achieved everything that they’ve ever dreamed of. But for you, for many of us, it still remains a dream. It could it be as easy as taking the steps to turning our dreams into reality.
It’s not a question about genetics, fate, luck, or thinking that you’re cursed, it comes down to a thinking process which you can use. Begin by first understanding what the most important thing to you is right now, then craft your goals towards what these values are.
If your goal happens to be in line with what your values are, then you’ll generate the energy along with the motivation which will lead you towards that goal. All of us have already experienced this type of energy and the motivation that’s required to achieve them.
It could have been our birthday or at Christmas when we were children, or as adults when buying a house, a new car, getting that dream job, getting married, or looking forward to that holiday in the sun. We usually get what we want.
So we know that it works, but we don’t bother to use this method when it comes to making our ultimate dreams come true. Most often because we’ll spend the time and effort attempting to make our goals work, but they don’t fit with our current reality, then we experience failure and usually give up.
The Result Of Our Wishes
We’ve all made New Year resolutions, but how may of them actually come true. Most likely not many for one reason or another. For the failures, the cost and effort of doing so, in terms of the time and money spent, or the loss that we experienced was just too high.
But once we develop a greater understanding of what our values are, and then craft our goals around them, then what we’re rewarded with is the energy and the motivation to make them become true.
The Optimization Of Time
To optimize our time the best, we need to prioritize what we want while gaining insight towards what’s important to us, and then distinguish between the activities which are urgent right now.
But this is the critical mistake that most will make, there are too many of us who reacts to situations which are asked of them, or they’re left to the point that they become urgent.
For instance, leaving the utility bills unpaid to the very last minute, or working for a tyrant boss who’s disorganized and everything becomes critical. It comes down to better time management techniques, and putting them into priority and practice.
Knowing What You Have With An End Goal In Mind
Make sure that you have an achievable goal which falls in line with the time that you have, and then make sure you take action on it. The goal needs to be realistic and the resources need to be available.
Delusion is the end result of not being realistic with what your current situation is. Then delusion quickly turns into disappointment and frustration, then there’s no progress and you think it’s not possible.
What we need to do is utilize our personal resources the best way that we can, our physical/mental energy, time, and our money.
Meeting Our Challenges
All of the proper planning that we can do isn’t going to cater to the potential roadblocks that may occur. Most will consider these unplanned events problems which prevents their progress.
But the high achievers are never deterred by these issues while expecting and welcoming them. They become energized by the potential of the opportunity which are enveloped by these events.
Having the proper mindset when it comes to the journey of achievement can be witnessed as conquering one opportunity after another, this to further reinforce the ability to succeed.
Using Our Imaginations
What we’re all gifted with are incredibly powerful imaginations. However, most of us fail to imagine our future outcomes to our advantage. What we imagine are negative outcomes instead, which leads us towards stress, worry, and the fear of the unknown, which drains out our energy and motivation.
So just by imagining a positive outcome regardless of what the situation is, does is it releases the energy and motivation that’s needed in order to win our goals.
The energy that’s used is exactly the same whether it’s a positive or a negative thought. So once we learn how to navigate it properly, by turning negatives into positive thoughts, there’s no other choice but for the results to manifest.
The Formation Of Our Goals
When forming our goals it becomes essential that we consider how things will be once we achieve that goal, which is just as important as knowing what we stand to lose. These losses will prevent us from achieving what we want since we haven’t yet adapted to or accepted the loss.
For instance, we want to quit smoking, but most will fail and give up because smoking is also associated with taking a 5 minute “smoke” break. But once we factor in the break, then the chances that we’ll stop smoking are increased considerably.
Believing That It’s Possible
It becomes important that we hold certain beliefs when it comes to achieving our goals. Most will hold negative beliefs since it’s natural, whether the goal is attainable or not, or if it’s even for them.
It becomes important to overcome certain beliefs or the results will become sabotaged. We’re not born with these beliefs, so the ones which we create throughout our childhood and to the present moment can always be altered.