Without a word being spoken, there’s a completely different language that’s being said, this completely silent, this the expression of using nonverbal body language to think or project how someone thinks or feels. This is considered an art because not everyone possesses all of it’s traits.
The ability of these skills is having the detection savvy of instantly knowing if someone, anyone, whether you know them or not is thinking, this by using your intuition skills, this analyzed by reading the other person’s reactions.
These displays are read by how someone acts, reacts, the specific body language that they use. There are the certain yet distinct nonverbal communication reveals that we, along with everyone else uses, this usually subconsciously, whenever we feel something, if we want to attract attention, or are attracted to someone.
We all possess these sets of traits, some more distinct than others. There are some who becomes accomplished in displaying these certain silent skills, while others will possess a completely different set of cues.
So what needs to be known is what these various types of nonverbal communication skills are, along with their strengths of intent, and the drawbacks which are associated with each.
It becomes helpful to know the art of detecting what these reveals are that others display, this for social and business success. This to know how others are feeling once meeting someone, whether you know them or not, this before a single word is spoken.
Controlling Oneself Emotionally
This is the skill when someone is able to consciously monitor and then control the nonverbal expression of their emotions along with their feelings. They have the ability to be able to cover, mask certain emotions that they feel, while acting out a different emotion.
Those who are skilled in this type of emotional control are extremely accomplished in the performing arts, such as actors in cinema, or are con artists. In real life, they may often appear distant, honest, along with being hard to read or understand.
Those who possesses this high level of emotional control can often be good poker players as well, as they have no tell, that you never know what they’re really thinking or feeling until it’s too late.
There are some who are are naturally talkative emotionally, being completely descriptive of how they feel. What they’re easily able to do is convey their thoughts, express their exact felt emotions, this through their facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice, and their body movement.
The upside of this, for those who are emotionally expressive is that they’re extremely popular, usually being the social butterfly type, being the life of the party. The downside is that they can expose themselves too far, that everyone knows exactly what they’re feeling or thinking.
Another trait of possessing emotional expressiveness is that it’s an important component of having personal charisma, what’s often referred to as having dynamic attractiveness.
Like your dog, there are those who are emotionally sensitive to a fault, being good when it comes to reading the thoughts and emotions of others, their nonverbal cues, being able to instantly detect their emotional mood.
As a result, those who possesses high doses of emotional sensitivity are extremely empathic, they display deep gratitude, this towards those who happens to be in pain or are troubled. They make excellent social workers.
A downside of this trait if one is too emotionally sensitive, is that it can make them prone to what’s known as emotional contagion, which is feeling the pain or emotional state of someone else too intensely, this to the point of they themselves becoming “infected” by their emotions.
Being Socially Sensitive
This isn’t just a nonverbal skill, but it also displays certain traces of having verbal along with social competence. Being socially sensitive is the ability to be able to “read” social situations and act accordingly.
What they’re capable of doing is knowing how to behave exactly how they should under any situation, this appropriately in a wide range of different social settings and fit in, to be able to adapt, such as a social chameleon.
What being socially sensitive does is it helps those to completely understand all of the complexities of social interactions, along with the ability to anticipate the actions and behaviors of others.
The Skill Of Deception
This is another skill which which can also be nonverbal, which is the art of deception, the sin of deceiving others for gain. The ability to outright “lie” to someone successfully, which partly involves telling a plausible verbal fib, while portraying oneself as being honest.
There’s research which supports that those who are successful liars, is because they simply look like honest god fearing individuals, this regardless if whether they’re outright lying or happen to be telling the truth.
The cues of their particular nonverbal behavior, which can include rapid speech but not rapid blinking, an expressive face, along with fluid body movements, just makes these certain skilled individuals just lie better.
The Skill Of Detecting Deception
This an extremely rare nonverbal skill, which is the ability to be able to detect the deception of others instantly, knowing if someone is telling a lie, however skilled that the lair may be.
The majority of people just can’t detect deception, they’re easily duped, giving the odds that the person is telling the truth, that most are honest in nature. They give the benefit of the doubt whenever someone says something.
What these experts who could instantly tell if someone else is lying are referred to as “wizards,” this because of their ability to analyses and then detect both verbal and nonverbal cues, and being right most of the time, much like a detective would.