Establishing long lasting relationships is the goal, to becoming more successful. When you’re not excited about what you’re doing, it shows, making you easier to avoid and forgettable. By projecting your passion, which is communicated through your attitude, allows you to be more attractive.
The words that you speak reveals everything about who you are. and what you’re about. The words you speak is the foremost way of communicating your beliefs and attitude towards others. Always think about what you’re about to say before speaking. Will it serve to build better relationships, construct a connection.
If not, then consider saying something different, or say nothing at all. What you say should reveal the bitter truth, what your mind is thinking, the message that you’re wanting to portray. If you try to mask this, it will show, and you’ll come across as slight and disingenuous.
Alter Your Thinking Change Your Attitude
What’s known is that what your thoughts does, is influences how you act and feel. What’s altered are the words that you speak, along with your body language.
Your thoughts, become the filter that perceives how you view the world. By altering your thoughts, you automatically change your attitude. Wear your thoughts everywhere you go. Make sure you show your best self, at all times.
Dress For Success
How you dress, the colors you wear communicates a lot about who you are. Find clothing that will accent your best features. Make sure that your clothes are properly tailored, neat, and wrinkle-free.
Develop appropriate fashion sense, select apparel that’s stylish and fits the image that you’re wanting to display. Consider how different colors makes you feel.
Wear clothes you enjoy, as you’ll come across in a more powerful empowering way. While clothes won’t make the man or woman, it speaks volumes about what you think about yourself.
Always Be Punctual
Always be on time. Make it a personal habit for everything that you do. Arrive on time for customer meetings, speaking engagements, anything you do in your work and personal life, which shows that you respect others.
Respect is the foundation which creates long-term relationships, with clients and friends. Showing up on time, is the best way to prove to someone that you care about them.
By keeping your commitments to others, you’re acknowledging them and their needs. Caring about others should be your number one priority, since that’s how you build integrity. Others will understand how much you care, if you show up on time.
Immediately Return Texts And Emails
Make it a point to answer all emails and texts, as soon as possible. Extend the courtesy of acknowledging messages, this by immediately getting back to them. Reply to an email, just to thank them.
Never allow others to wonder whether you’ve received their email/text or not. If you don’t reply promptly, you’re perceived as not being on top of things, aren’t detail oriented, or just don’t care.
Never hesitate when it comes to communication. Prioritize your time by doing so several times a day, just to solely reading, and replying to emails and texts.
Promptly Return Calls
In this age of instant digital communication, emails and texts are sent to relay messages that aren’t really urgent. What actual phone calls now represents, are situations which needs to be addressed immediately.
What responding promptly does is displays an attitude that you value serving others, that you respect their time, along with their concerns and their deadlines.
In today’s accelerating competitive environment, if people don’t get the immediate attention they’re seeking, they’ll take it personally and avoid you. So give phone calls the urgency they deserve, and return them ASAP.
Always Take Responsibility
Your attitude is revealed through the responsibilities that you take upon yourself. Others can sense once you take full responsibility for your actions, along with the resulting outcome.
What’s communicated is an aura of strength, confidence and leadership, which makes you more attractive to those you want to communicate with. Think of ways on how you can step up to take more responsibility for your actions, and the results will show.
Take Positive Action
Anyone who’s successful are action takers. They don’t wait for life to happen to them, they make life happen. What taking action does, is communicates an attitude of excitement and accomplishment, which others find inviting and alluring.
Taking action displays to everyone that you’re a leader, that you want to move things forward, that you can make things happen.
You’re extremely confident, doing what needs to be done. What everyone respects, is someone who takes risks, those who are movers.
Mindful Body Language
Along with the words you speak, body language is the next most obvious way of showing how you communicate your attitude towards others. Consider yourself to be a walking billboard.
Everything from your facial gesture, your posture, how you sit, how you position your arms and legs, communicates volumes regarding who you are, and what your attitude is.
Observe those who exhibits positive welcoming body language that’s open, and then emulate them. Study and become mindful of your body language, and create your own distinct style, which represents you the best.
Smile Be Happy
An inviting genuine smile, is the universal sign of welcome and friendship. There’s nothing that warms the heart of others more, which melts tension making a situation better, or endears them towards you, than a smile.
So adopt and practice smiling when needed. Incorporate it as a habit. Not only does a smile affect others, it’s also an automatic signal to your brain that you’re happy.
People are attracted to others who makes them feel good. Start attracting people, by illuminating yourself by wearing a genuine smile.