From Being A Sub-par Human Being To Becoming Extraordinary

The majority of the population, such as you and I, are average or slightly below average on the grid when it comes to human achievement. We like to swim with the tide, conform, obey and do and say what others do. We behave like sheep. We enjoy to be as normal as possible, so we won’t look out of place.

As a result, the majority of us are boring and redundant. But if you want to improve, get better, move ahead and above the crowd, become the top percentile of performers, know that doing so is possible. So choose to get better, as the bulk of the population fails to fulfill their potential.

This is known as our comfort zone. This is not intended as a slight, or to be an insult to the masses. Also realize that any statistic can be skewed, as there are certain variables that alters the medium, making the results misleading.

The Hunger To Rise Above The Crowd
So if you’re wanting to get better, it’s easier than you think it might be, to improve your overall performance, and begin to station yourself above the masses. It comes down to determination, as all it takes is adding just a small percentile of effort in everything you do.

But then, why is it that just a few succeed. The reason being, because most will get discouraged and quit after a small setback, and then choose to give up trying, rather than moving forward.

There are a few proven steps that you can take, to rise above the ordinary, above the crowd. To get better, to jump from constantly being substandard, to becoming an amazing human being and excel past your peers.

Always Be Thinking Ahead
It’s pretty obvious that the greatest of leaders among us, views the future differently. The same principles can apply to anyone who wants to improve themselves in any field. You’ll increase the odds of succeeding once you begin with a goal, have an end game in mind.

The most prolific individuals when asked, will give the advice that you should map out what you want to do, such as your career path. One way is finding a mentor, research them and then emulate them. Follow their path, by tracing their steps backwards.

Always Place Others First
Although there are some, who are extremely arrogant and selfish who has achieved amazing results, empathy is always morally recommended as a trait to have.

Whenever we envision the future, specifically how we want others to react and see us, you need to decide on the best path to get there.

When dealing with others, you want people to like you. You want people to buy from you in good faith. You’re wanting others to tell their friends about you.

Become As Competent As Possible
Being proficient at something becomes important. You don’t need to be the premier expert in your field, but what you need is the core knowledge to know enough of whatever it is that you’re representing.

So if your field is Social Media marketing, you need to learn the basics. Don’t just proclaim that you’re a social media “expert,” but instead begin by putting in the work and then lead by example.

Set Your Own Goals
What the majority of those who remain average fail to do, is establish their end goals on whatever it is they’re chasing. What they then end up doing is fulfilling the dreams of someone else instead.

They chase a career that others have chosen for them, or follow the life path that someone has defined for them. Then they find it difficult to succeed, or are unsatisfied once they reach their goal, and then can’t figure out why.

Always Treat Everyone With Respect
It’s always important to treat others, everyone, friend or foe with respect at all times. This includes from their basic rights to the extreme.


What you need is the support from everyone, to become successful. You can’t expect anyone to help you out, if you treat them badly, so always be nice.

It also becomes difficult to treat others with respect, if you don’t respect yourself first. Always be setting the tone on how you expect others to treat you, which is with respect as well.

Be Honest Always Show Transparency
What you’re not expected to do is reveal all of your secrets, but always be honest by showing transparency at all times, this especially when you’re asked.

Whenever you hold back information that others could find useful, this so they could make a better decision, you do so because you’re afraid.

We fear that they’ll find a better solution, or achieve more success with the information that we provide them. This only makes them become disappointed in us, and not trust us.

So transcend all of your fears by disclosing everything. What you risk becomes secondary compared to the potential gains that you’ll get back in regaining their trust, along with other benefits.

Always Leverage Technology Properly
We now live in an era of technology, that’s unprecedented. As a result, what those in the know does is takes advantage of it.

They jump ahead of their competition, this simply by knowing and applying this new technology, this in their favor before others do.

It doesn’t need to be groundbreaking. You could be the first in your industry, for instance, to use mobile marketing to draw in more customers and sales to your service.

You could be the first person in your company to use Facebook advertising, this to precisely pinpoint and attract targeted customers, this more cheaper and more effectively. This will help you become a superstar performer, and become extraordinary.