Once we want to improve our life, we instinctively look for external help. We look for self-help guides or mentors because they know better than us, right? What we envision in our minds is what our ideal life should be like, but we think we need help to get there.
Once we formulate who we want to become, we go out and research how we can get there to become that person.
The only problem with this is what we’re giving up. What we’re giving away is our personal empowerment …
Anything that involves change becomes daunting for anyone, as it’s associated with ones familiar habits, routine being changed, which ensues in instability. Realize that once anyone describes themselves as being in a rut, what they’re usually referring to are common situations which has become too stale.
What they’ve lost is their mojo, that spark they once had, that interest and motivation to do something. If you’re completely happy with your current life, then you wouldn’t be considering making any changes at the moment. But to improve, to get better, change …
Anytime is a good time to take inventory of your life, and decide to make positive changes for the future. The intent is there but what becomes difficult is undertaking the process, the physical and mental motivation that’s needed to actually make it work, to take action.
What you’re wanting is to go on a diet to lose weight, decide to quit that bad habit, to generally implement bigger more improved ways to organize and rearrange you life, such as finding a new job or mate. The optimism and the …
We’re taught to attack living in a linear fashion, as all life does is ticks forward, and will mercilessly leave victims in their wake, if we don’t keep up or pay attention. As life accelerates, it becomes logical to think you need to keep it steady and on track.
The more changes and transitions you make and go through, the more opportunities you have to perceive the shifting patterns of your life.
How you manage change, whether you can effectively negotiate all it’s necessary alterations, propels you forward.
The ability …
There are a few things that we can’t escape in life, and most of them will be encountered at one time or another. Vices will invariably catch up to us when we least expect it. Karma or some great divine is keeping track of our guilt, and will resolve themselves eventually.
What we’re constantly forced is to face adversity often because of our poor judgment, oversight, and our mistakes. Although we may not always have control once the hardship of fate strikes, what we can do is control what we …