What people naturally gravitate towards are those who they like, rather than someone who they don’t like. Who’s avoided are those who are smug, standoffish, or arrogant. It’s a natural reaction to be attracted to likeable people, who comes across as genuine. We can instantly improve our likeability by being more friendly, open, and down to earth. What we want is to present ourselves to others as approachable as possible, with an attitude that’s nonjudgmental. What matters is giving a good first impression, such as greeting others with a smile, while projecting the sense that you’re well adjusted with yourself.
9. Definite Your Purpose
Begin by getting rid of the “should,” “would,” and “ought to” out of your vocabulary and mindset, and your life. Be definitive on what you want to do, then prove yourself by doing it. Begin by rolling up your sleeves, buckle down, and do the hard work that’s required.
What procrastinating does is leads you nowhere and astray. What’s known is that those who spends their time thinking, pondering what they should be doing, will stumble along with their lives. To be more likeable and attractive, show the world that you have determination and purpose.
8. Strive To Become Successful
For those who are determined to become successful, what they do is attract other like minded individuals who are success orientated as well. Once reaching this threshold, show your gratitude by sharing this success.
What you’ll then become is a natural magnet to attract the right attention that you want, from those who are equally as relevant and interesting, or from those who are better off than you are.
7. Always Be Honest While Telling The Truth
What someone who’s likeable projects is the aura that they’re a genuine person, that they’ll get the real goods from them every time and under every circumstance. Those who are genuine has come to terms with what they’re capable of, and will apply it realistically to the real world around them.