You’ve worked extremely hard to build up your career. and you’ve reach its pinnacle, yet you feel like a phony, that you don’t belong somehow, which makes you feel uncomfortable. It’s the fear that you’ll be exposed, this because you don’t think you’re accomplished or competent enough to do your job. This happens to those who’s experienced success in the business or entertainment world, who has these thoughts. This feeling of being an imposter, happens to everyone every once in a while, provided they’re not an egotistical narcissist, extremely lazy, or are just crazy. No one is immune when it comes to this self-doubt.
Know The Reasons Why
There are many who has achieved everything that they want in their career, yet they don’t feel that great about it. What it comes down to, is what their personality type is. What experts claim is there are five categories: These are, those who are perfectionists, the super-hero, the macho individualist, the genius, or the expert.
Perfectionism and they thinking they’re a fraud, goes hand-in-hand. What perfectionists tend to do, is set high impeccable standards for themselves, and once they don’t reach them, they think they’re losers, when they don’t reach their lofty goals.
“Super hero’s” are those always working late, this to achieve more, putting their life on hold, as it’s work that only matters. Geniuses will base their success on their abilities, their gifts, instead of their effort. If they need to work at something hard, then they think they’re failures. Individualists work alone, while experts think they know everything.
6 – Don’t Like Compliments
Those who think that they’re imposters, have a difficult time accepting compliments or accolades, once they accomplish something. They’re not comfortable with others giving them praise, and will internalize their success. What they feel is embarrassed, discounting the compliments as invalid.
They don’t believe in themselves, and thus feel they’re not worthy of praise, this especially if they’re given rewards, or even just a pat on the back in front of others. It’s not a display of being modest. They truly don’t think that they deserve the credit they’re given, because of their low self-esteem.
5 – Success Came Too Early Or Easily
What some will feel is fraudulent, thinking that they didn’t work hard enough to get what they’ve got, this especially if they were born into privilege, such as rich parents. They realize they were given an opportunity that others didn’t get. So any success they experience, they feel they don’t deserve it. They realize what they were given, is a head start in life.
Some then will manage to screw it up, and not reach their potential or the success that they were destined for. What needs to be taken into account, is understanding it wasn’t up to them, that they were born into this life, so just accept it and take advantage of it.